SGP 1
and robust a table with was there no I’m
here you know worrying about you and you
just don’t give a [ __ ] mmm that’s only
do I’m Sol ml I am in D
[Music]
and everyday
[Laughter]
fights nothing about me are noisy
oh I’m wrestled and I get bad night when
he doesn’t put like you’re not in the
gym we should arm wrestle for good no
ice drinks and gets me a [ __ ] tissue
paper he bites toilet paper
can we talk about it tomorrow
sleep on it today we don’t mean rest
edition editions don’t see food things
in the spur of the moment we don’t cut
each other we don’t cursor yeah yeah you
see that you know can we talk things out
literally that’s the action exactly how
it look just last week actually cuz he
was out and then I I wanted to know like
whether he was gonna come over and
everything I called he was like why
don’t you tell me you know I was waiting
for you son like I get very dramatic
when I see all I want I was just like
text me that oh I’m sorry I can’t come
over tonight after I fled us or so I
sorry about it because it was quite
stupid that you think about asking
vishna Brittany does he like like the
best like females everything is like 10
names up oh no no no any was like I get
one but it for our event even like
sitting down being a woman but she was
going through a couple of days or saying
some really means nothing because I was
like okay don’t talk to me until you’re
responsible for the things you say to me
because they really hurt but the way I
said that to her was like I’m cutting
you out until you are responsible for
the things you say to me and it feels
like fine I’m moving out tonight and
guess how long that lasted ten hours
honey pants if the fights are really
stupid and she realized that at that
moment it’s nice to be consistently it
takes a lot more out of me to say I’m
sorry in a fight like it would take him
almost just a second when he gets mad
and noisy COO like I’m sorry but I’m
like whatever event sulk for a few hours
before I you know finally weigh the pros
and cons I go all right this is stupid I
met because it spilled water on the
table I’m gonna say I’m sorry makeup on
me go oh gee we were like centre long
pics like a summary I’m sorry it’s not
like that’s the upset I don’t know for
long enough I just danced it when you
say Oh Kimmy you’re Kira I could not
assume that for your community because
sometimes you expect me to automatically
know
[Music]
I think we have to keep reminding
ourselves that we chose this person and
we just do things that remind us of why
which was each other so that’s hugging
and I going out fight always ends with
us seeing the bigger picture that you
know us being together and working
together there’s so much more important
than whatever forgettable my things are
fine you know and that reaffirms trail
of for me really like I learned how to
be less selfish putting really putting
myself in the other person’s shoes as
well
eventually I have to let go to be a
better person so I think like every
fight makes makes us like understand
each other more you know when you start
out not really knowing the person you
don’t know what I mean like what I don’t
like is the relationship progresses when
you hit a roadblock we get to know the
person know everything all right how do
you react to certain situations once you
know
the last thing about like Pascal in for
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SGP 2
if you don’t know what you have till
it’s gone uh no this is song hey guys
what’s up my favorite I’m Janet
my name is libido I’m Regent hi I’m
Trisha
hi I’m Wien in the span of six years
we’ve broken up about eight times the
longest time we’ve actually separated
from each other was about four months we
broke up in January 2016 for about one
and a half years we broke up for about
three years I guess had commitment
issues I just wasn’t ready also very
immature person if I was to forego for
more than three months I I can just
mainly it was the lack of communication
like we weren’t able to effectively
communicated and anger built up you know
frustrations and all that can you just
stop holding grudges eventually needs to
a break no yeah we did a couple yep of
course I never really wanted to be with
someone else at because I still want to
be with him
[Music]
I did talk to other girls but I didn’t
go any further there was just this
emptiness in me like none of them were
hurt you know
every time you meet someone you and you
communicate with them you kind of
realize that now this is not what I
expect my perfect person or partner to
be like to me never get over it and then
started meeting a few new people then
you know things didn’t work out
obviously yeah
with any of them sadly I mean gladly it
hurts or pity that it wasn’t like an
intentional like rebound yeah it was
more like just move on
you can be sad for a while but why you
want to be sinful is so long you know
you got to think about yourself as well
[Music]
we realized that what we had was pretty
good
it’s just that we didn’t appreciate it
when we had it we just click like don’t
stare at we I don’t think I would ever
click with anyone else better than I
like with him I think every relationship
is not perfect there’s gonna be ups and
downs and I really really have strong
feelings for fibbin don’t you let go
[Music]
and I know that there will be no one in
this world that will ever do the same
thing that Phoebe’s that’s right bro
you’re right you’re right
you can’t deny what you feel like it you
can pretend to like completely disregard
someone but you just love them of course
many times of course I missed him but I
think I just realized that it was for
the better at that point of time I did
regret we cannot have an ester baby than
why I went back together because I’m
pretty sure there’s no one else out
there with exactly like her you know you
will never know how much someone means
to you until you let them go
it’s a yes and a no kind of thing it
took a lot of time to get over it and
like move on from it no part would be I
kind of did want to see what was it like
being single for a longer period of time
I don’t think I would regret it either
but there’s something you can live with
something’s you cannot know being or we
kind of helped us realize that one of
the things we can actually I forgot what
I was saying it allows you to really
understand what you want out of a
relationship
it becomes just so chill and come with
each other and like very comfortable shy
we really fight nowadays we really have
arguments he the we handle
in the posse website you actually think
is an issue but now when you’d like to
take a step back anything you’re like oh
you know it’s just miss calm they’ll
never last beyond a day we don’t bring
it over to the next day he’s a lot more
fun like a lot more ready to do things a
lot more adventurous even if it’s not of
his interest he’s willing to keep it
aside for me and he’s like yeah you know
what let’s just do it together because
you want to do it so that’s what you’ve
learned about me yeah that’s what I
learned I never knew you could be fun ya
[Applause]
know argue even in public one shot here
one shot there – counting know basically
me we just love each other like it has
to be our argument is we do discuss it
but we discuss it in a way we do not
offend each other and at the end of the
day right we understand each other
better never wanna go back and make the
same mistake again prior to the break-up
we were a lot more immature after the
breakup and after all the experiences we
had while we were broken up we learned a
lot of things we don’t get into tupid
arguments about stupid things and if you
do it resolves in a more amicable manner
yeah it’s not training like it was yeah
cause like last time I was like oh yeah
that’s probably can last for I don’t
know how long you guys duties of
non-fighting was great
yeah we’re not very healthy but now it’s
different
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[Laughter]
SGP 3
oh hi I’m Ian and I’m Yao and we were in
a long-distance relationship for like
five years
I’m David and I’m Sarah and we’ve been
in a long-distance relationship for four
years
hi I’m Ellie and I’m Ryan so we’ve been
in this relationship for like five
months we are still in a long-distance
relationship we first became friends and
then he went to the Gold Coast I was
like what two months in and he was drunk
one night and then you know called me
like you know but then afterwards he
came back I think it was for his
birthday
yeah we had a really great night and
then he kind of asked me again and I
just thought let’s give it a shot so we
met and yeah I was just stand for like
holiday he DM me on Instagram and then
he was like yeah I got let me show you
Ryan I mean bring him round I mean I was
pretty persistent did everybody have
much of a choice
I was gonna study medicine so happy
birthday so I decided to say my oh well
New York is a 13 hours behind Singapore
and I’ll be up in the morning she’ll be
sleeping when I tell the good morning
this good night
yeah oh yeah shitty internet connection
it sucks let me know skyping people and
then like the damn thing just cuts off
when you’re with someone in the same
country you know you can hug them or
kiss than ever with long distance you
don’t have that luxury you have to
really communicate and talk
because we are quite different people
you know David is more of an introvert I
guess I’m more of an extrovert so
sometimes it kind of clashes and that’s
probably just one of like the hardest
things I think it was yeah I knew this
was coming yeah right
sorry about my dad I mean we’ve we’ve
we’ve done some videos
well more like I have because this guy
it’s not for my lack of trying
but sometimes he’s not safe look at all
of you do you find some way to keep the
spark alive guys yeah I feel like if you
were to things like that they really
never started personally if I say
something I feel like make it happen
yeah it’s what I like about it like in
the middle I thought I was getting used
to it cause like five years right when I
first your heart second your audition
and you’re like medium like specific I
mean like so it gets better but then it
gets a little bit hard it’s like
anything you have good days and you have
bad days
there’s some days where you sort of
think like you know why am I doing this
and then there are other days where you
think you know I could not do anything
about this
I literally feel like I battle with that
every single day which obviously annoys
the [ __ ] out of him I’m like doing
nothing and I’m having to defend myself
for something I’m not even yeah but it’s
like a [ __ ] but your boyfriend says
he’s not doing anything but he doesn’t
reply your message for a very very long
time and then you’re sort of like oh
he’s at someone’s house
oh he’s [ __ ] going a bit yeah and
then he’s literally at home asleep or
playing like some stupid you know at the
beginning maybe not so much it’s very
hard to be insecure when you’re doing a
long-distance relationship the only way
is to trust law it’s not like a
relationship can’t happen
it tells me when you’re saying yo it
goes yeah do it there’s something that
as a deputy I know if they’re not
treated okay
[Laughter]
I’m the kind of person who if I’m if
someone there’s no one I know I see
[Music]
communication because that’s the only
thing you guys have you guys have to
talk about things just talk it out no
time to be petty you get the freedom and
like finish everything of the like that
being single part of life but then you
also have someone to like like talk to
about your trouble single day and I know
your stuff so you get like the best of
both
like you definitely you definitely do
learn a lot more about each other when
you really have to communicate and talk
and that’s all you have it definitely
does help you grow you you do see like
how strong you can be you appreciate the
time you have together a lot more I mean
it was so hard but it was such a good
experience I feel yeah
trust it trust this mine Trust is number
one if you’re gonna do it put insecurity
aside just like it’s just gonna ruin
things I think this one thing that we
always do like if I don’t want something
to happen to me I shouldn’t do that to
him
I think every relationship she was a
[ __ ] one of the most important things
is also not to control the other person
it’s like I would never tell her no
you’re not allowed to go out with your
friends no you can’t go for this event
or this dinner party if you maybe feel a
little something about a person you know
you just sort of say it and she would
like reassuring on that’s not the case
of whatever just just trigger the
opportunity to learn more about yourself
I guess one of the things that I feel me
drive people pioneer issue is just the
insecurities laughs and I feel like if
you’re open you’re honest and you’re
faithful you know and your partner can
know that you’re open honest and
faithful yeah okay guys thanks for
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SGP 4
you had to insert this like a jar coat
size straw
injection needle into your spine there
was nothing else i could think of except
for the pain so just the pain and me and
the pain and me it’s just
you and the pain there’s nothing else to
think about
[Music]
my main concern was giving birth because
i am scared of pain
no i actually are quite excited i just
want to like faster deliver
and help my babies in my arm it’s more
like i worry that i
cannot conceive but i think naturally as
a woman
we tend to worry and when a couple can’t
conceive
people will tend to look at a woman more
than a man i knew that age
was catching up that was one of the
things that were in the back of my mind
whether you know i would face any
problems conceiving and all that
i don’t think of it was a consideration
whether
i would have a baby or not like i’m
happy that something great turned out
for this year so i feel rather safe
because the hospital actually took much
precaution hospital i feel like is
rather safe because it’s controlled
environment
they will check all the patients
temperature everything
[Music]
several ways that people know you’re
going to labor is either you get
contractions
or your water back bursts but mine was
blood
so my natural reaction was to be
to panic about it because i just want
the baby to be fine i went to visit my
mom first
and then we went to mcdonald’s buy
some food and then he parked at kalang
lija park
so i had my food there outside standing
up
in between my bites i was having
contractions i felt it in my lower back
yeah so it was like someone is just
punching my lower back i have to like
compose myself just let it pass and then
okay continue so i thought like yay this
is it you know just a few more hours and
baby will be out
and then comes my guy telling me that
okay i’ll see in the morning it’ll take
about like another 12
hours like what my labor was starting
from midnight and then i delivered
around
six so it’s like about 18 hours while
waiting before they push us to the labor
room there’s this waiting room
where they check your contractions
everything it’s only like around four
people inside only
then after that in the morning time they
will shift you to a proper delivery
seat yeah so that’s only one person with
your husband
so not not so much of interaction
between other people just you and the
nurses there
and maybe your doctors who visit you
they teach you about breathing
techniques and how to push
engaging your core but on the day itself
i tell you
oh my god it’s like whatever i learned
is like out the window the whole process
is really very
very physically draining like i’ve never
felt that kind of
tired before and the pushing part right
oh my gosh it’s really feel like pooping
i was actually 10 cm dilated already so
she said okay this is it you need to
push i was like push
where’s my guy knee eventually my gynae
came when my gunny came it’s like wow
this is what god looks like you know so
when he came in
he he just patted me on my head
everything’s gonna be okay are you ready
to meet your baby i’m like yes
as i was pushing the the midwives and
the nurses they were
they were using anything like wet wipes
they were wiping like my butt and then
like i saw like bits of brown and i told
my ass
uh what is that then he said oh
no nothing then you know the smell is a
bit you know i was like
the nurse says okay it’s okay don’t
worry this happens it was embarrassing
but
it had to happen yeah the pain is really
really bad it’s like menstrual cramp
but it’s many many times more than that
like your pain takes over your entire
body
did that cause you any hesitation having
a second child no it was not
after having the first child and i look
back on it right i survived it
i’m still alive my child is healthy
and i also wanted another kid for
my daughter to grow up with love the
body
is very clever it forgets after a year
of your
your pregnancy
[Music]
hey that looks are meaning me that’s the
very first thought
hey that looks like me but of course not
probably
so when she was out the first thing i
heard was her cries
and i didn’t expect to hear that and her
voice was like the best thing i heard
and i started crying i kind of point
towards what i felt
it was just i was amazed that
i managed to give birth because since
young i was always so scared of
childbirth but i managed to pull through
yeah i actually missed my labour though
i miss
being pregnant i think having a baby is
the best thing that
happened to me this year so yeah quite
happy
my family couldn’t be there you could
have two guests i think
but i decided not to have any
because you know i wanted to rest fully
yeah i didn’t want to entertain anyone
of course i wish the family would be
there
but it’s okay we we still got like four
and then we can keep our
each other updated
i think having a good guiding is very
important if there was anything that
came up or if i had any concerns i could
always let him know
and email him and he’d reply like almost
immediately
don’t over google things trust your
gynae ask your grinding questions if
you’re really scared of pain
there’s a lot of like different
medications and different ways
to help you with the pain relief during
labour growing up in singapore we are
very blessed
because we do have actually a good
medical and health care system
that caters to all these things so i
think that we’re in good hands
if you yourself take precautions and you
you know you’re ready to have a baby
and you know the hospital as well they
implemented lots of precautions
so just be relaxed and just go there and
listen to what the doctor advise your
doctor advice and what the nurses advise
you to do
just be happy it’s a happy event just be
ready nobody is ready to be a mother
to be honest you just do and you learn
along the way although it is scary
it is something that we can do as
mothers we are built to do this who else
is
you
SGP 6
someone sat on the chair and they left
the turd
on the chair
[Music]
i was working at this really huge
seafood
chain restaurant i’m working for this
like high b store
i actually worked at mcdonald’s for like
one week
part-time tutor the aquarium so why do
you take all of these jobs
money money
i didn’t want to burden my mom if the
school fees last to be honest it’s not
about the
money because that time i really like
was not exposed to the
part-time job work i decided to take
them out of experience and like
curiosity rather than to earn money
it was like the most enjoyable
experience
from working at this place i was lucky
enough to get into
a company together with my friend and
it helped me a lot in terms of like
stress management
and to know that somebody is actually
there to support me and she’s like one
of my closest friends
when you get like gifts from guests
especially during festivities like
christmas they will
either give you unpower or they’ll get
presents for you especially during
chinese new year when do you shang
everybody will fight for the table
because all the regular guests will give
you like
100 200 pounds does this like
that was that oh i forgot the name the
budgie jumping place at sentosa
basically i was working there the the
boss’s deadpool plus i got a fat tip
50 bucks easy so i got to freeze bungee
jump and i have 50 bucks so
best working experience what about
horrible experiences
i took up this job of selling ice cream
door to door
there’s this arbing that showed us like
how to play
sympathy cut to to sell faster and sell
more
i got hired as a cashier right like they
gave me the cashiering apron
but then and now i had to do like food
prep cleaning
serving not even cooking
auntie i knew you go home earlier i had
last two ice cream
okay can you just help me clearly so
that i can go home early and you know
edina and my family
i’ve had wine throw it on me i’ve had
guests shout at me
i’ve had somebody put their hands on me
because the guy was drunk
so yeah i have experienced everything in
that place so that’s why nothing phases
me anymore
someone sat on the chair and they left
the turd
on the chair i’m hoping that it is the
ciao at the table but the third was
unusually large
so i was clearing the table then i
smelled something really bad and i was
like ha ha
what is that smell and i went around i
pushed the chest and the table and i
saw the turd lying on the chair the
third was looking at me and i was
looking at the third
and i was like wow it’s time to quit
before the wedding ceremony
there’s like snacks and like drinks
outside of the ballroom right and i was
just walking around like
serving chips and then this one guy
comes up to me and he says
excuse me this these chips are loud hung
already
i didn’t know what lau hongman at the
time because my choice is that bad
i thought he wanted more trips so i went
to the kitchen stood there looked around
for a while
went back out and went back to the guy
and said sorry sir
we no more love already and then the guy
just gave me this space flies like
so do you think like what you’ve learned
from that job that has been sellable to
you
yeah that’s how i grew like texting
because
i like i didn’t dare to talk to guests
like i was so scared and then like no
you work in a restaurant you have to
learn how to talk and i used to be very
sensitive
but then because of working in this kind
of industry right that’s how you grow
thick skin over
like over a course a few months so one
guest shouts at you
and then i’ll just cry you know when 10
guests shout at you you’re just like
whatever i would say they have no direct
relevance to where i want to go in life
or whatever
but i feel like in terms of like shaping
my attitude
shaping who i am today they definitely
did a lot
so i definitely couldn’t have become who
i am without going through
all those hurdles yeah of course i
picked up like little things from
every single job that i did over the
years but
overall right there wasn’t any skill
that i can put to use
now so i have this friend right she’s
part of the work study program
what i found interesting is that she has
a full-time salary while studying
for her diploma uh so how i know about
this program was through school
they had a talk once but nobody was
listening in class but
can i say that why was this during my
time why is this
it gives you a structured framework i
guess you can study and you know at the
same time that there’s a job waiting for
you
and you know it also at the same time
you won’t be forced to neglect your
studies
yeah i want to read up on it then i was
like i’m in
because at the end of it i’ll get a
specialist diploma
work experience and a 5k bonus so why
not
i would definitely have taken this
program if i knew because of the money
yeah i mean if you graduate with five
thousand dollars it will help you and
cushion the blow when you want to look
for a job also
through that this work study program
gave me a head start it gives you a lot
of like experiences
as well as knowledge that you can apply
when you actually step up
properly into the workforce if i’m wrong
you’re getting like a mentor also with
you right
like i feel like that mental factor
honestly is very important because like
you’re actually having like this like
older friend in a sense that’s like you
know he’s like your buddy
and like i mean you have to i feel like
that’s the important part is that you
have to take the initiative to go and
learn from him
rather than he spoon feed you i mean
what’s that to lose right
me you get to earn a full-time pay while
studying
just thank you
you
SGP 7
and then i just feel like a button in
when was the last time i cried
i mean i have cried out of like
frustration before
you know sometimes you’re just so tired
already right then you keep having more
and more
things to do it’s like at that point it
just feels like very overwhelming even
though it’s like
small small things if you’re talking
about real like
proper like like balling
uh it would have to be
around the time when i left my previous
job because that didn’t go well
so it was a lot of crying over the last
month i would say that i was working
there because i bit off more than i
could chew
but i didn’t let on that i was
drowning i think the last time i really
really cried
was back when i had a relationship in
army
coming to terms with it wasn’t really
easy for me in your head like okay i’m
going to marry her
when expectation don’t that doesn’t mean
reality then of course
there’s some sort of resentment that i
felt it was quite bad though for five
days i was actually stuck
in bed i think in general like as a
person i feel very insecure about a lot
of things
there are times where i just feel like
like why is
like my partner still with me and i
think there was
so many thoughts about it that i just
started crying and i didn’t want to cry
in front of him
so when i cried he was actually playing
his game and i just cried behind him and
he didn’t even know until the next day
when i told him
i wasn’t able to talk to other people
about it because
it didn’t feel right to talk about it in
a way it’s like at the time like
everyone else had their own thing
i didn’t want to be become someone
someone’s problem
i didn’t want to let someone see me
vulnerable i don’t really tell
stuff to my family like let’s say if i
feel that something is wrong like within
the family or anything
i don’t like let them know me and my
sister maybe we were brought up in the
environment where like we don’t
share about our feelings to each other
like we never
ever thought about feelings that
everything is just very superficial
kind of thing and so like from young
until now then it’s just like
something that we don’t do all yeah like
we like i don’t share things with them
they don’t shine to me
it’s also something that i have been
thinking about recently and i i kind of
wish that like we
can just be more open with each other i
wasn’t always very
guarded so back in poly i dated this guy
it was a super toxic relationship
and i think whatever that happened after
that just made me feel very gutted
whether it was making new friends or
getting into a new relationship
i just feel like i didn’t want to open
up to people because
i might get hurt and yeah i feel like
like personally i just don’t want people
to worry i feel like
and then i just feel like a button in
um i thought i appeared okay
but people that were close to me were
not saying something
i’d be like just just stress you know i
just say it’s just stress you know it’s
like like
chalk it up to like general work stress
yeah
and most of the time people just move on
from that
at the time i had this really good
friend we meet up like occasionally and
like she would always be asking like hey
you
sure you’re okay um you don’t seem
yourself anymore
so it’s like at the peak of like when it
was getting bad and we were
at this like cafe and then she just said
okay we’re not
leaving here until we talk about this
now in hindsight it makes me feel glad
that i had someone that you know cared
for me
honestly i’m quite fortunate that i have
like
good friends around me they do check in
on me time to time going through the
process of keep
telling others right yeah also at the
same time telling yourself
that reason why it didn’t work it gives
me the better understanding like every
time i explain to someone i’m actually
explaining back to myself
sometimes i i do think like what if i
check in on them instead
and when i started doing that and i felt
that it caused a ripple of like a good
effect that people start doing that to
others as well and people around me
started checking in and it’s not like
you don’t do it of obligation you know
you do it out of like of the love
because it’s your friend right you
really want to know how how they are
i wish someone checked in on me every
single day
i might not tell you everything but
even if i were to tell you that i
am okay or i’m doing great
i feel like that’s okay
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you